The first week

Anchored in Brigantine

 

Okay, I know it's been over a week now since my last post, but living this life of leisure is exhausting and we are still adjusting. We had a couple nice days sailing from Barnegat to Atlantic City and then down to Cape May. We had friends and future Gemini owners sail with us from Atlantic City to Cape May. It was a little swelly, but a beautiful day.  We were going to drop them off at a marina in Cape May and let me just say that our approach was less than stellar. Lesson learned, we need to keep a pad and pencil near our VHF for directions! After dropping our friends off and filling up with a whopping 8 gallons of fuel, we left the marina, anchored off, and set out in the dinghy to explore. One of our intentions for this trip is to explore new places and meet local people. And so far we are succeeding. I believe we found the Cape May equivalent to our Broadway Bar and Grill! We actually met a scallop boat captain who has been to the Broadway for the fisherman's happy hour at 7:00am!

 

Anchored in Cape May

 The next morning we were up with the sun and headed through the Cape May Canal and up to the Cohansey River. What a beautiful spot! It was hard to believe we were still in New Jersey. According to Bud's mom we are not supposed to talk to strangers, but we like to call them characters. And boy did we meet a character, his name was Charles. He was a neat guy with great stories. He even offered us his truck to explore and since we already had dinner plans, offered to make us breakfast the following morning. We were at a dock with fresh water and Bud wasted no time washing the boat. I've never seen any man so excited to see a hose! Although I must say I was equally as excited to see bathrooms with a shower. So after the boat, Captain and 1st mate were squeaky clean, our guests arrived. It was the Smith clan! Our son-in-law Dave came with his parents and his brother, sister-in-law, nieces and nephew. What a great dinner and visit!

The Smith clan

 

The next day (I think it was Friday, but to be perfectly honest we have already begun to lose track of the days) we were up and out early to catch the tide leaving the Cohansey. The weather was beautiful, but no wind. We traveled 20 miles up the Delaware Bay, and then caught the flood tide through the C&D Canal. After the canal we traveled 12 miles down the Chesapeake and tucked into the Sassafras River for the night. Another beautiful spot. We explored a little by dinghy and attempted fishing (again, skunked), but the birds were amazing. We saw a few bald eagles and a few thousand ducks. Apparently it's duck season, as the shots that rang out the next morning proved.
 

Anchored in the Sassafras River

C&D Canal

 Saturday we continued down the Chesapeake, heading for Middle River, MD. Second lesson learned, read the right compass rose heading so that you don't end up in restricted waters off the Aberdeen Proving Grounds! My bad. Nobody came after us, so I guess we weren't that much of a threat. Oh, have I mentioned all the crab pots in the Chesapeake? What a pain in the rear. I guess I should be thankful that I'm exercising my eyes and have become an expert crab pot spotter.

Docked in Frog Mortar Creek, Middle River - Thanks Dani!

 

Middle River has been a welcome break. We have good friends that live here, and have had seen family and friends every day. We will be leaving Wednesday morning and I have a feeling we will miss all of the company we've had the past few days. Not sure exactly where we will head from here, all I know is that it will be SOUTH!

~ Jen & Bud

The Adventure Begins...

 

    OK, so we didn't get that far...but we're on our way!  We had a nice breakfast with family, and quickly departed. Quicker than I thought it was gonna be, but I'm probably better off. I didn't even have time to bawl, and Bud didn't have to pry me off of the dock.

 

    The kids escorted us to the Mantoloking Bridge, and after a few more waves goodbye to family, we were on our own.  After talking about this trip for years, Bud confessed that he never really believed it would happen, but...here we are. Ready for the adventure!

 



 

~ Jen & Bud

 

Shakedown Cruise

 

June 22....That was the day.  For many months now, we knew it was coming.  "You guys should come to Block Island!" That's what our friends Don and Lisa said many moons ago. "Sure, sounds great!" That was our reply.  Sounds all well and good, but as the days passed and it grew closer, my apprehension increased.  Bud was still very excited, but I was trying to think of people we could drag along with us.  After all, this would be our first big cruise, not to mention our first overnight sail.  A few weeks before we were to leave, it was apparent that it would be just the two of us...alone.  I decided to embrace it. We could do this. We were going with a buddy boat, so that was comforting. When we met with Capt'n Don a day before the trip, I was expecting some direction, some chart plotting, some tips, SOMETHING....Nope. "Out the inlet, heading of 75 degrees to Block Island." THAT WAS IT?  Not so comforting.  Oh well, here we go! 

 

 

Saturday, June 22 turned out to be a beautiful day. We left the inlet at 10:00am and headed, you guessed it, 75 degrees.  The ocean was beautiful. No turning back now.  We saw a bunch of dolphins, a sun dial and even a shark! Smooth sailing. Catamarans are notoriously fast boats, but when you live aboard it's a different story. We have so much weight on this boat, not to mention a dirty bottom!  We did OK keeping up with our buddy boat for a while but lost sight of him some time after sunset.  Not a problem, remember... 75 degrees.  We made it through the night under a beautiful full moon.  We took 2 hour watches which seemed to work out well.  By the way, we love love love our autopilot! (We call him Otto... get it, Otto Pilot!)  We spotted our buddy boat right before heading into Block Island, perfect timing. I think he was afraid he lost us in the fog! Did I mention Capt'n Bud caught a nice blue fish! (and proceeded to slaughter...I mean filet it right in the cockpit) We managed to season and marinate the filets and have everything cleaned up before heading into Great Salt Pond, Block Island. By 9:00am we were moored and enjoying breakfast. Twenty-three hours...we did it! And apparently we made good time!

 

 

Block Island was beautiful. It was Race Week, so there were tons of boats and sailors, and we met some great people. We even rented scooters and toured the island with some good friends.  It was nice to relax for a few days, but Wednesday came and we were off again.  Headed for Old Saybrook, CT. Unfortunately the wind was out of the south and it was a day of motoring. As was the next day to Southport, CT.  But that's OK, they were two really neat towns. One nice thing about traveling in our home is that we also travel with our garage.  We have 2 really convenient fold up bikes which allow us to see more in less time. Friday we headed to City Island, NY.  Nice long showers at the yacht club, and a walk into town for an outstanding dinner. After a drink at the club it was early to bed. We left City Island at 5:30am in order to have an easy time through Hell Gate. What a cool ride through the city and down the East River.  It was a bit choppy in the NY Harbor, but SeaQuest handled it with ease.  We passed Sandy Hook at 9:30am, and the seas grew. There were swells about 10'...I swore they were bigger, but I think I exaggerate about the seas like Bud exaggerates about the size of the fish he caught! We made it home and anchored at Treasure Island for the night. I'm not sure why I say we made it home, we are always "home". That's what we love about living aboard!

 

What a great trip! It was definitely a good shakedown cruise...broken Windex, radar tripped out, saltwater in the bilge, high seas....the important thing is we handled it all in stride, and it was the confidence builder we needed. Confidence in our boat, and confidence in our crew.

 

I know I haven't mentioned the other two members of our crew, Bud thinks it's best to let Kaya have a say!

 

That's right, I think I deserve a say! My furry little life was turned upside down 10 months ago, but I must say, I think I settled in on the boat quite nicely. I love living here at the dock, and I don't even mind my annoying little brother Chase much anymore. We love going out at night and hanging out topside.  Yup, the dock is nice. But then came the sailing! Not a big fan the first few times. I couldn't even keep my lunch down.  Then all of a sudden last Saturday my Mom tried to feed me this really nasty tasting pink pill...I think she called it benadryl. I heard her talking to the vet about it last week. Well, I did not appreciate that. I thought I did pretty good , I made it almost all the way to Block Island before I tossed my cookies. It was nice to relax for a few days, but once we started to move again my tummy started to rumble.  I guess my Mom noticed (could've been the drool dripping from my usually adorable little face), because she scooped me up, wrapped me in a towel and brought me outside with her. I actually started to feel a little better.  She held me almost all day and made sure I was OK.  I even sat by myself for a while.  The next day Mom didn't even need to hold me, though I did like to be covered with a towel. By the last day, I became quite comfortable in the little cubby you see above. Mom tried to shove me in there a few days before, but I wasn't ready.  She had the right idea though, it was way comfy! Mom knows best!  So now I think I am a true sailing kitty, out on the open sea, the wind blowing through my fur... As for my little brother, he's a wuss, he doesn't leave Mom and Dad's bed until we dock or anchor. Oh, and I think there's something you should know! There were a lot of times during our sail that Mom and Dad BOTH walked away from that steering wheel! They say this pilot named Otto is driving, but I don't see him. I think I might have to learn how to drive this thing!

 

 

 

Home Sweet Home!

There she is!

 

Well, It's been a crazy 6 weeks, but we are settling in!  Since my last post, we have had our survey, made our purchase and brought our new "house" home, but not without incidence.  We were very excited after the closing, and couldn't wait to bring our new boat home!  Unfortunately, when we went to pick her up, there were problems with the motor and after a day of troubleshooting, we decided it was bad gas.  The next week we tried again...with external gas tanks, and we were off!  Unfortunately, there wasn't much wind, so it was a long motor home. We made it from Atlantic Highlands, around Sandy Hook, down the coast, into Manasquan Inlet, under the train bridge and the Brielle bridge, and through the Point Pleasant Canal.....well, almost through the canal!  About 100 yards from the end of the canal our fuel pump failed and there were a few minutes of OH NO!  But, thanks to a quick thinking Capt'n and crew (and a guy who jumped off the work barge to help us) we were able to secure the boat to the the side of the canal and fix it right up.   After settling into our slip at the marina, the to-do list began to grow, and it hasn't slowed down! 

 

At this point we are counting down to our closing on the house at the end of the month. Very exciting, and very scary. You don't realize how much stuff you have accumulated until it's time to scale down. It's actualy been pretty cathartic though.  I'm gonna keep plugging away and we'll see how the next few weeks go!

 

 



How time flies...

I can't believe it's been 16 months since my last post. Boy, did we get off track. Life, work, projects, all seemed to get in the way.  Well, look out...we are on the fast track now!  As of last year we were trying to accomplish our to-do list to sell the house.  Bud's business was keeping him as busy as ever, and my job took me to California for most of last Summer. When September rolled around we bought a project house with a friend of ours and spent the Fall and Winter renovating it. What a great learning experience and an overall fun job for me!  After the sale of that house we decided to get a move on!

We are not putting the house on the market. Our son Pete will be moving in so we can keep the it in the family for a while.  And the boat search...well, we checked out 10 boats, in 6 states over the last month!  Of course the one we decided was for us is right here in New Jersey.

Our survey and sea trial are in a few days, so hopefully everything will work out fine. 
                                                                                                                                     We love this boat!

We will keep you all posted on our progress!

And the Search Begins...

Well, It's official! We have begun our search for a boat. No matter how many boats you look at online, no matter how many specs and pictures you pour through, it's not until you step foot on that first potential vessel that it feels like a reality. Granted we are not at this moment ready to drop a bundle of cash on a boat, but we are trying to figure out exactly what kind of a fixer-upper will fit into our budget. It should be interesting! This past weekend we were lucky enough to join some really great friends for their wedding in St. Lucia. The wedding was absolutely beautiful, and we had a great time. Being in the Caribbean really got us itching for more of that warm and breezy weather. 

While we were in St. Lucia we took the opportunity to check out a boat that I had seen online. Luckily for us the boatyard where the boat is was just a short taxi ride from our resort.Unfortunately the boat was not quite what we are looking for. We are really not picky, but adequate headroom is a must! While speaking with the manager of the boatyard we inquired about any other available catamarans. He did show us one more. A 32' Gemini, exactly the boat for us...in theory.  This boat, on the other hand, well lets just say I almost lost my lunch! There was such a stench down below that it was the quickest tour ever! Worse than the smell was the fear that this boat was gonna be the kind of boat in our price range. We still haven't heard the asking price yet, so I guess we will see. 

Well, I guess the important thing is that we are moving forward. That's really all that matters, right? So, back to our to-do list for getting the house on the market. We had said we wanted to have it listed by May 1, but I'm not quite sure that's possible. Things happen, we just have to roll with it. If we are gonna be cruisers, that is one lesson we will have to learn!

Change...

Change is hard. Change is scary. But change can also be exciting. Whether it's a new job, a new home, a new state or a new lifestyle every change has it's challenges. And every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Sounds all well and good, right? Well, for me, easier said than done. But I have decided at this point in my life, it's time to make a change. After a few years of waffling back and forth we have decided to sell our house. Despite the crappy market we are hoping to get enough money out of it to buy a boat. Not just a boat...a cruiser, a liveaboard, a home. Anyone who knows Bud, knows that he is the sailor. On the other hand, anyone who knows me, knows that I have never been a water person. I must say that over the last 16 years I have come a long way. I'm sure my nail marks are still in the fiberglass of our Catalina, remnants from our first date, and my first time on a sailboat. But I knew from that very first date that if Bud was the guy for me than I better learn to like the water. That was a big change. Come to think of it, that was the first of many changes to come. Getting married, raising kids, yup...those were some pretty big changes. Looking back, maybe I'm not as bad with change as I thought. One thing I'm sure of, life is short and nobody knows how much time we are given. I do know that I don't want to have any regrets. I don't want to have any "wish we would've"s.  Up until now, it appears that every big change was certainly a challenge. I also feel like I have grown through each experience. So...bring it on! I am looking forward to the next new challenge!